We are astounded at those who believe stalking is a joke with no serious consequences. On the CBS message board, Vixen/HeidiHo has again taken up residence, this time as Huntersarse. She's staying under the radar, so to speak, watching her p's and q's. She's said nothing to get her banned. Her messages have become less vulgar and confrontational than in the past. She is now more insidious, gradually planting her seeds, one at a time, with each response or comment, sucking in the gullible and naive`.
As we all know, her current message is about David Caruso and the "new" girlfriend, who could well be history by now. Why this one? Because Sebastien has validated her with photos, and she's run with it. This, after nearly two, yes that's 2, years of salacious rumors, pairing David with every female he has contact with (including co-workers, club staff, friends, business associates, reporters, fans), most mentioned by name, thereby questioning their reputations and possibly their relationships. Anyone to drive that wedge between David and Liza. Even though David and Liza are now separated, she continues to assault Liza at every turn.
We want to laugh, yet can't, at those who think they understand and think "they are baiting her". Unless one is an obsessive psychotic also, this isn't even possible. Today, on the CBS board, one poster said she knew exactly who Huntersarse was, " I have no more intention of talking to her because she's lost my interest (honestly I thought she could do better than that)". If this poster knew anything at all about her, she'd have known Huntersarse couldn't maintain anyone's interest. She can't even respond to the previous poster. Her comments are self-contained, requiring no preface at all.
The link is to an excellent article by an RN, with BSW and vast background dealing with the psychosis of stalking and its manifestations, as well as the treatment and legalities.
A couple of excerpts:
".........The core of their obsession is based on fantasy; what they cannot attain in reality is achieved through this fantasy. When they attempt to act out this fantasy in real life, they expect the victim to return the affection. When no affection is returned, the stalker often reacts with threats and intimidation. When the threats and intimidation don't accomplish what they hoped, the stalker can become violent and even homicidal............"
"...........Delusional stalkers are the most tenacious type of stalkers, with delusions lasting an average of ten years............"
"......When the object of the stalker's attention says "no," he/she rationalizes their intent away and may then focus of the perceived situation or person the stalker believes is standing in the way of a relationship."
".....Paranoia may make the delusional stalker act aggressively towards a third party.......If they can eliminate the intrusive third party, they believe they will protect the object of their desire, and consummate the fantasy relationship."
Any of this sound familiar? Read on:
1 comments:
10 years!! TEN YEARS!!!!!
The comment regarding the stalkers focus on the situation or person standing in the way, following rejection by the target. is well demonstrated here isn't it! And then the love obsession can continue, as we are seeing now. A great read for anyone, but especially those who have doubts. Yes, it is serious.
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